Nov. 9, 2025

Real Menopause Symptoms No One Talks About and How to Get Through It

Real Menopause Symptoms No One Talks About and How to Get Through It

What happens when a woman who has spent her life on stage and on air suddenly doesn’t feel like herself? Hot, foggy, flat, and not sure why? In this intimate conversation, Australian country music trailblazer and radio host Gina Jeffreys opens up about the symptoms that blindsided her, the grief she carried, and the turning points that helped her find her spark again.


Gina takes us from brutal period pain on tour, through years of infertility and loss, to surgical menopause and a long, confusing aftermath with little guidance. We explore the lesser-talked-about signs, from skin sensitivity to sleep disruption, as well as the strain on relationships, work, and identity, and the practical supports that finally made a difference.


In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Understand how perimenopause affects your whole body, from skin and sleep to mood and memory.

• Learn why surgical menopause can feel unpredictable and how to track what’s really changing.

• Recognise the emotional load of grief, rage, and relationship strain, and ways to ease it with support.

• Explore treatment options, including estrogen, vaginal therapies, and when testosterone can help.

• Get practical tips for intimacy, pelvic-floor health, and better sleep (even at 4:30 a.m.).

• Use gratitude, counselling, and community to rebuild confidence and rediscover yourself.


If you’ve ever thought, “Is this just me?” it’s not. You’ll hear the real story behind rage in the car park, crying in the school office, stepping back from the spotlight, and learning there is help: hormones, pelvic-floor physio, sleep and intimacy solutions, and a mindset shift toward gratitude. Gina leaves us with hope, agency, and a joyful reminder that midlife can be a beginning.


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00:00 – Gina Jeffreys’ Story

00:00:45 – From Country Star to Midlife Shift

00:01:09 – Menopause Begins: First Signs

00:01:27 – Symptoms, Confusion & Finding Help

00:02:34 – The Struggles Behind the Spotlight

00:06:35 – Hot Flushes, Pain & Physical Change

00:06:57 – Emotional Turmoil & Unexpected Rage

00:08:38 – Car Park Rage & Crying Spells Explained

00:11:56 – Impact on Work, Marriage & Self-Esteem

00:13:24 – Coping Through Songwriting & Creativity

00:16:03 – IVF, Loss & Relationship Strain

00:24:22 – Public Scrutiny, Weight & Confidence

00:27:38 – Health Reset & Body Confidence Returns

00:30:07 – Facing Gym Fear & Finding Strength

00:35:29 – Pelvic Floor Physio That Changed Everything

00:41:31 – Hormone Therapy: Finding the Right Mix

00:45:12 – Testosterone Therapy & Renewed Libido

00:46:28 – Brain Fog Battles & Clarity Returns

00:49:33 – DEXA Scan & Hidden Fat Insights

00:55:59 – Menopause Weight Loss Journey

01:01:49 – Cutting Back Alcohol & Feeling Better

01:08:35 – Gina’s Top Tips & Menopause Advice

01:12:02 – Future Plans & Life After Menopause


* Menopause brain fog

* Surgical menopause story

* Perimenopause symptoms explained

* Menopause skin changes

* Testosterone in women

* Vaginal estrogen dryness

* Pelvic floor physiotherapy

* Menopause sleep problems

* IVF grief and loss

* Midlife relationships

* Breakfast radio routine

* Rage and irritability menopause

* Rediscover You program

* Midlife confidence

* Sex after menopause